The simple rules for saying it again under a glowing sunset.
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Vow renewal etiquette worries more couples than it should. Because a renewal has no legal status in the UK, there are very few rules, and the ones that matter are about kindness and planning together.
I'm Leon of Twilight Ceremonies, an accredited celebrant and photographer based in Llandudno. These are the questions that come up most, with simple answers.
Should It Be a Surprise?
No. A renewal is a promise you both make, so you should both plan it. Talking it through together is part of the joy, and it means the words feel true for each of you.
Who Should You Invite?
Whoever you like, or nobody at all. Many couples keep it to the two of you, while others bring their children or a few close friends. Celebrating your anniversary with your growing family has ideas for including little ones.
Who Leads the Ceremony?
Anyone can, because nothing is registered. A celebrant writes and holds it together, so you can both be present. Do you need a celebrant to renew your vows explains the options.
What Should You Wear?
Anything that feels like you, from your wedding dress to a summer shirt. What to wear for a sunset vow renewal has practical tips for the coast.
Do Guests Bring Presents?
They do not need to. Their presence is plenty, and you can say so when you invite them.
Do You Need New Rings?
Not at all. Many couples exchange their original rings again, and some add an eternity ring.
Where and When
The Sunset Vow Renewal is £450.00 on the live offerings page. Rhosneigr, Criccieth or the shore at Penmaenmawr all suit, but you can choose anywhere: home, your garden, elsewhere in the UK or abroad. If you eloped with Elope with Leon, your package brings a free celebration or 15% off.
Plan it together, keep it kind, and the rest is up to you. Read how to plan a vow renewal in North Wales, then speak to an experienced wedding celebrant.
No rules, just the two of you and the promises you choose.